This is how you feel when your parents got divorced. It is Hard.

We all agree that divorce is hard, and not just for adults, kids, they suffered even more. And trust me, these feelings below, we’ve all been there.

1. You don’t get what’s going on at first.

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Even though they try to explain.

2. Their fights rarely stop.

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They’re just about different subjects now.

3. It may not hurt so much at first.

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But it will hurt. Badly.

4. You may get a bunch of “compensation” presents.

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And they will be helpful at first.

5. Sometimes you will can’t help but feel like you have to choose sides.

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6. They will take it out on you sometimes.

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But you’ll learn to forgive them.

7. And you will take it out on them too.

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Even when you repeatedly hear “it’s no ones fault.”

8. You will seek for shelter in your friends.

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9. Or just deal with it on your own.

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Just remember you’re not alone.

10. You’ve experienced watching your mom or dad cry.

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And there’s nothing worse than that.

11. If one of your parents gets married again it will suck.

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Most times that’s the way it is.

12. At some point you will want them back together.

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And that could be the worst idea ever.

13. You may feel like you were not good enough for them to stay together.

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But that is not true.

14. Sometimes you will not understand why love couldn’t prevail.

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15. You will be afraid of getting married because of them.

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16. You may blame one of them more than the other.

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And perhaps you are being selfish but you can’t see it yet.

17. But you will understand their reasons for separating when you grow up.

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You will.

18. You will get over it, and it will no longer pain you.

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And it’s great when you get to do it for real.

19. At the end of the day you love your parents. And they deserve to be happy too.